In dating, there is a phenomena that every single girl is familiar with.
You meet a guy. Maybe he is great. Maybe he is just okay, but you are willing to give him a chance.
Then…BAM. The Ick.
The Ick is the feeling you get in the pit of your stomach. The hairs on your neck stick up, and you know you need to exit. Immediately.
The Ick can creep up anytime…and it can be anything.
Obvious icky things include being a bad kisser…or is rude to the waiter.
But the Ick that I am talking about is much more subtle, and you never know what it is. What causes the Ick with one guy may not cause it in another.
A mannerism…the sound of his voice….the way he breathes…
You never know what may cause the Ick. Or why…
Have you ever experienced “The Ick?”
Is it real…or am I just picky?
I'm a mother, wife, daughter, and friend. Until recently I was also an employee. Now that I'm a full time mom, I've decided to make my thoughts, concerns and feelings public.
No you’re not too picky! Never ignore the ick. Trust your gut. ALWAYS.
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I agree. Otherwise, Its a nagging worry! I think that the ICK just means that person isn’t right for you. What icks you out in one guy might not in another!